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My toddlers sleep has been ruined since HFM!

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RobertaRo · 17/11/2024 18:20

Hi,

I'm desperate for some advice please!

My little boy, 2 next month, used to sleep through the night 90% of the time. He hasn't used a dummy since 4 months old when we got rid of them.

A month ago, he had HFM so wasn't eating or drinking in the day and was waking up hungry and thirsty in the night. We haven't yet made the full switch for his milk bottle to sippy cups yet (I know, don't come for me!) so he still uses a bottle with a teat for his bedtime milk. Since the HFM, we have created an awful habit where he is now waking in the night for milk, but more so that he can use the bottle like a dummy. I give him 50% water 50% milk in the night because now, he shouldn't be having milk in the night. He is getting very attached to having the bottle in his bed and won't go back to sleep without it, now he is waking pretty much every single night anywhere between 12-2am. He won't self settle anymore back to sleep, when he used to. Myself and my partner are both working full time so just cannot be up for hours in the night battling him to go back to sleep without any form of milky drink :(. I really want to nip these night wakings in the bud and take away completely the milk bottle but I just don't know where to start? Anyone been through anything similar? He's nearly 2 so doesn't need milk in the night OR a teated milk bottle.

Any advice appreciated xxx

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CannyFettle · 17/11/2024 20:55

I ended up stopping the bottle at night when it stopped settling him to sleep. Before that I moved it to just after bath and books, but he never asked for a drink in the night to be honest. Then I moved it to just before bath in a 360 cup.

He had another regression at 2 and he had to have me there to settle, it lasted about 3/4 weeks and I got a z bed to go next to his cot so I could get some sleep. He came out of it and is back to normal now.

Would he settle with you in the room do you think? Or a soft toy for comfort? We introduced a soft toy during the 2 year regression and that helped.

Now I'm thinking back he was pretty bad at sleeping around that age because we introduced a toddler pillow and duvet as well. It was hell at the time but did pass.

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