Most people write about the cons of co-sleeping and the affect it has on the child and not being able to detach and sleep independently, but has any other parent experienced sleeping problems after the child left their bed?
Ive co-slept with each of my children until they were a year old. Had a Super King size bed so plenty of room and followed all rules to co-sleep safely. It was a massive success for each child and I loved it. After a year each child transitioned into their own beds and sleep wonderfully each night.
But…I do not! I struggle to fall asleep and wake up frequently during the night. The odd night one of my children are sick or just want to sleep with me, I sleep soundly all night! The sound of their breathing calms me and having them next to me makes me feel peaceful and sleepy. And subconsciously I must know they’re there as I don’t wake once during the night.
Surely I can’t be the only parent in the world to struggle with this. Any tips would be appreciated, apart from sneaking into my kids beds just so I can sleep next to them and get a good nights sleep.