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2 month old 5am wakes - action plan

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MoreThanRubies · 03/06/2024 06:23

DD2 is 2 months and on a good night sleeps 11-5. I know this is a great long stretch (it’s fabulous!) but I wonder if anyone has experience in nudging timings in a baby this age? I’d love for her to go down a bit earlier, and wake for a feed during the night (1-3am) then resettle. She’s still too little for a full adult style stretch without a feed, but the timing means we can’t get long enough. I can go back to sleep at 3am, but when she wakes at 5 I’m looking at going back to sleep at 6 or 7am which doesn’t really work.

DD1 is a toddler and wakes at 7.

DD2 has a bath about 8 and then spends all evening feeding until crashing out between 10 or 11. (On bad nights, she doesn’t feed well, wakes at midnight then spends the next 5-6 hours fussing - this is still fairly common).

On the good nights, would feeding her at 3am, even if that means semi-waking her, help her get another stretch until 6-7am?

If you’ve had this issue (long stretches but too late), did you manage to nudge the timings? How?

Earlier bath and cluster feeding session would be hard because of DD1 but I’d give it a go if I could get more sleep.

I know I’m being optimistic - 6 hours is a wonderful stretch - and “fourth trimester” and “shifts with DH” are the most likely responses. All the advice on early wakings is for babies old enough for proper routines. We’re still at the rhythm stage.

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Smellz714 · 03/06/2024 06:46

We had this with our first, lasted an age, came back at 9 months. She's only just started to sleep past 6am and she's nearly 3y. Couple things helped when she was older, sticking her in her pram in her bedroom and rocking her to sleep to get an extra 40mins or so. Not a lot to suggest for you now though, she's probably too young for the over/under tired thing. Could try and adjust daytime sleep? Make the room darker if possible? Might have to just ride the storm unfortunately, put her in a sling and go grab a coffee downstairs before the toddler wakes up, you might end up enjoying those moments! My current 10 week old is still cluster feeding too, about the same time as yours, it's hard isn't it. Hopefully a routine with better timings is round the corner.

Overthebow · 03/06/2024 06:51

Quite honestly I don’t think there’s much you can do at 2 months, I’d say enjoy the nice 6 hour long stretches when they happen which is pretty amazing for 2 months old, and wait until she’s a. It older when she’ll probably change her sleep times and start bringing her night time forward herself in a few weeks.

CurlewKate · 03/06/2024 07:41

In my opinion, if it ain't broke don't fix it. And that block of sleep at 2 months is DEFINiTELY not broke!

MoreThanRubies · 03/06/2024 12:06

Thanks everyone, I’ll try to embrace it for now. The early wakes leave both DD and me confused about whether she’s meant to be sleeping, meaning patchy grumpy mornings. However I won’t be deliberately waking her up at 3am, as I was contemplating at 6am this morning!

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