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16mo will not sleep...

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TrixieVix · 30/03/2008 17:16

My 16 mo DS used to be a fantastic sleeper - we had managed to get into a routine of putting him down awake in his cot with lights off etc and nightlight on, and he'd get himself off to sleep. He had been like this since about 2mo.

A couple of weeks ago, we switched his room, so he's now in his permanent room. He's in the same cot and in the same grobag, so can't work out why he won't sleep anymore?!

We've got blackout blinds up and did have in his old room, so it's not like anything major has changed, just the room itself, which isn't hugely different anyway, and how much can he see in the nightlight??

The situation isn't helped by my in-laws who childmind two days a week. My DS cried when they tried to put him down for his daytime nap just after we'd made the switch, and so let him sleep on my FIL. This is now how they do afternoon naps, despite me repeatedly asking them not to as I think consistency is the key. It's making nap-time and night-time an absolute nightmare.

My DH is convinced it's because of the room switch and that we should switch back, but I said - what if we'd moved house and DS was having trouble adjusting - it's not like we could just 'switch back' in that scenario, so don't see why we need to now.

Please please say it will get better and it's just a case of perserverence.

TIA

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DaddyJ · 30/03/2008 19:36

It will get better and it's just a case of perseverance

Was there anything else in his previous room that he might be missing?

TrixieVix · 30/03/2008 20:43

Not that we can think of - the only real difference is that his cot is placed against the wall in his new room and was in the middle of the room in his old one...the thing is, he sleeps fine in the double bed in his new room, just not his cot, but is too young to go to sleep in the bed cause he's fallen out even though there are rails the whole way round. Fortunately it's a low bed, so no damage done!!

Thanks for your reply DaddyJ

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DaddyJ · 30/03/2008 23:46

Hope tonight's settling was better -
and the clock change did not throw another spanner in the works!

I agree with you that consistency is key
but this might be a fairly short phase
where he needs a little more reassurance.

TrixieVix · 31/03/2008 14:05

Argh - ended up crying for nearly an hour (obviously didn't leave him all that time) and only finally went off when I laid with him on the bed, which is where I left him until he woke up at 6am this morning crying. I'm desparate not to get into the habbit of going to sleep with him on the bed, but was exhasuted myself last night and he'd got himself so hot and bothered that I thought he'd do himself a mischief if left any longer.

So unsure what to do for the best now. His teeth are bothering him, but not anymore than his others have done. It must just be the new room - I'm beginning to run out of suggestions and hope!!!

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EffiePerine · 31/03/2008 14:11

The room might smell different?

At this age, I would be tempted to try CC for a night or two and see if he settles.

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