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2.5 year old and rubbish sleep

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Katiekate19 · 24/08/2023 13:00

From 6 months, my 2.5 year old was an amazing sleeper. Put him in his cot and he'd roll over and sleep 7 - 7. Absolutely nothing we did, blind luck.

6 months ago he figured out how to climb out of his cot so we had to take the side off. So then we had to lay on the floor holding his hand and wait for him to sleep. It could be for up to an hour (I also have a 4 year old I need to put to bed as well), if you tried to leave he would scream and scream. Eventually we had to put a stairgate on his door and leave him to cry as my eldest was getting upset I couldn't spend time with her at bedtime. It took 20 min and he went to bed. From that night on he's been fine and gone to sleep straight away no problem.

But he has now figured out he can climb over the stairgate so that's had to go. So not only are we back lying in a dark room for an hour putting him to sleep (if we leave he screams and follows us), he is also getting up at night and will only settle back to sleep in our bed or if I sleep on his floor. I'm also the only one who can comfort him at night, he doesn't let my husband near him!

So I would be eternally grateful for any tips....I'm exhausted!

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SiouxsieSiouxStiletto · 25/08/2023 08:29

I have absolutely no idea on that one sorry. Hopefully someone will be along soon with experience Flowers

LGBirmingham · 26/08/2023 07:44

We've always stayed with ds for him to fall asleep and still do now. But around this age he went through a massive bed time resistance stage. Partly due to timings but mostly due to just being defiant. He's 2 and 8 months now and he's fine again, doesn't take long at all for him to sleep now as long as you're trying at the right time and he's tired.

I mostly do bedtimes, unless I'm out somewhere. I found I just had to set in place firm boundaries. If he was messing around I would go and sit in the chair at the other side of the room for instance, if it was really bad I might leave the room and come back when he started behaving. And repeat for weeks untill he got the message. I also found if I got cross it made everything worse and he would also imitate that behaviour during the day.

MexicanDrinkingWorm · 26/08/2023 18:35

We got an extra tall stair gate off Amazon, our boys the same age as yours and really tall but no way he could even attempt to hurdle it!

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