My LB will be 21 months in a week, for the last few months bud nighttime waking has been absolutely horrific. I work full time and don’t know how much longer I can physically cope being so tired daily! He hasn’t always been a great sleepy to be fair and has rarely self soothed to sleep. He is in his own crib (co-slept for 1st 9months as he was EBF), he goes to sleep no issues around 19:30, albeit he holds our hand through the cot until he falls asleep! He then will sleep for around 5/6 hours until he wakes up crying sat up right gradually getting louder until we go in! I’ve tried leaving him to settle himself but this rarely happens and we’re taking a good 30/40 crying! We eventually give in and bring him in our bed, now he generally goes back to sleep but not without playing constantly with my hands which keeps me awake but he falls asleep (lucky so & so). Now when my husband goes to get him they sometimes get in the spare room so he isn’t searching the bed for me and he goes to sleep 9/10 with no drama. I need help/advice, this is a nightly occurrence & I'm beginning to dread going to bed. As soon ad he’s down I go to bed myself so mr & my husband don’t get any chill time as I go to bed ready for him waking.. #tired/exhaustedMamma please help!