My son has always liked sleeping with us but it went through phases how much he would get in bed with us and how much he’d just sleep through in his bed. Previously, if he had come in with us, I could put him back in his bed easily. He’s pretty confident but has never really liked being on his own upstairs if we’re downstairs and is a very cuddly child who wants / gives a lot of physical affection. Recently he’s started taking ages to fall asleep, wakes up at the slightest sound and then will flap around and won’t go back to sleep (in his bed). The moment he’s in bed with us / in our bed he’ll go straight to sleep. This is obviously putting a strain with myself and my husband and everyone’s getting so tired. I’ve tried rewards, charts, being firm, being patient, not saying much, talking it through, various lights, white noise etc etc and nothing has worked. When he was a baby he’d sleep for hours and hours and I could move him / take him anywhere and he just wouldn’t wake up. Now it’s almost like he’s on high alert to be awake unless he’s with us! I need any suggestions of how to sort this!!!