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15 month old - help please

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Skg21 · 15/02/2023 15:11

Hi guys

I've always read the threads on here and I appreciate there's already lots of posts about sleep and weaning etc and I've read them and found useful info. I just need to know if anyone has any tips for my circumstances.

My little girl will be 15 months next week.

She's always been a decent sleeper - since moving to her own room and cot at 8 months, she's generally only woken once a night.

Lately, however, she's up every 2 hours.

She started nursery 2 days a week 3 weeks ago, having previously been with grandparents those 2 days. She has also been ill on and off for about 6 weeks now - cold, jabs, infection, reaction to antibiotics, another viral infection. A couple of nights ago she coughed so violently that she was sick all over herself and her cot.

She's also currently transitioning to 1 nap since starting nursery. And to top it off, she's cut 3 molars and another is on the way.

She eats well - 3 meals and snacks. She has a bottle of milk before bed (then brush teeth, books, singing) and sometimes in the afternoon. I've tried 5 different sippy cups and varying temperatures of milk, but she refuses to drink it out of a cup.

Prior to now, she would nurse from me once in the morning when she woke and once in the night. So I was starting to wean her from the middle of the night feed, explaining she can't have it until the morning and husband comforting her if she woke.

But suddenly she will scream the house down and not go back to sleep without a breastfeed. No matter how tired she is, she will keep going until she gets it - even if I try for an hour!

Do I just need to give her time to adjust or do I need to do something else? Any tips on the cup refusal, begging for boob or sudden all night waking?

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Skg21 · 15/02/2023 22:36

Anyone got any advice? X

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muddlingthrou · 15/02/2023 22:56

My DD is FF so this might not be relevant, but we've found that whenever she is even a tiny bit I'll she wakes frequently. In the six weeks up to Christmas she was hit by bug after bug, and that meant fitful sleep and lots of wake ups. So hopefully this will pass when your baby is fully recovered 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

midnightblue12 · 15/02/2023 23:04

Sorry if I missed this but are you wanting to stop breast feeding?

Sleep is developmental. You'll find that her pattern will change so much and it sounds like she has SO much going!
I've always found when my sons were in a leap their sleep would deteriorate. And it's feel never ending but in a couple weeks they'd be showing me a new skill.
If you're happy to still comfort feed then do it. I'm currently feeding my 2 year old back to sleep 🙈
Do what you need to do to make it easier for you. With my eldest I made my life so hard by trying to follow the book and what worked for others, but second time round I'm not forcing stopping BF, he always crawls into my bed, we cuddle to sleep... he rules the roost basically 😅
I've learnt from my eldest that you just cannot force it. The sleep will come but until it does do what you need to do to make it easier for you.

Regarding the cup, would he take it from a spoon? Sounds random but worked with my eldest!

lochmaree · 15/02/2023 23:26

I'd do whatever works so you all get as much sleep as possible. she's had so much going on, if she has a bf in the night, does she go back to sleep after?

Skg21 · 16/02/2023 10:43

Thanks so much for the responses. Its just hard when you're in the thick of it and can't see if you're doing right by them.

She generally will go back to sleep after a comfort feed. But lately she doesnt then want me to leave her room, which I suspect is her anxiety since starting nursery.

I think I worry about co-sleeping and developing a habit but if it means we all get some sleep, then maybe a short stint of bedsharing may just be the key!

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