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Only 1 Nap at 11 Months Old?

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faded07 · 29/12/2022 14:05

My DD has recently been refusing her morning nap, even though she is clearly tired. She usually has a 30 min nap at 10am, and then a 1.5-2 hour nap at 2pm.

The past few days she has refused her morning nap. I have given her up to an hour and she just keeps crawling, standing and talking to herself. All the signs of tiredness appear (eye rubbing, yawning and general grouchiness) but she just won't go. I've managed to get her off in the buggy a couple of times but even that took 45 mins before she finally admitted defeat.

I know that regressions can happen but, if she keeps refusing the nap, what more can I do? Some friends have said she might simply be at the stage where she wants to drop her morning nap and move to 1 nap a day.

Today I decided to bite the bullet and didn't put her down for her morning nap. I put her down for her afternoon nap at 1pm instead (she'd been awake since 7:30am). She did go down quickly and was clearly exhausted, but woke after 50 mins all hyped up again. Dragging her from 2pm to 7:30pm bedtime now feels like an unbearable task.

Has anyone else had a similar situation? Should I still be putting her down for her morning nap, even if she refuses it, or crack on with 1 nap, even though it's clearly not enough.

My DD is starting nursery next week and I am obviously very anxious. I'm worried she is going to be overtired but I can't force the child to sleep during the day if she clearly isn't inclined to. She is still doing okay at night but now takes a while to go down. We put her down at 7:30pm and she doesn't cry, but spends 45 mins to an hour talking to herself before falling asleep - yet more sleep time lost! Help!

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fruitbrewhaha · 29/12/2022 15:26

I’d try putting her down earlier, at 9:00am.

faded07 · 29/12/2022 18:33

Thanks but she would only have been awake for 1.5 hours by then so would not fall asleep.

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Getinajollymood · 29/12/2022 18:39

I’d probably bring bedtime forwards. It is a really hard phase. DS is now two and is fighting his nap but desperately needs it (I resort to car journeys to get him off!)

bluenoseelephant · 29/12/2022 18:45

Try waking her up earlier in the morning and get her outdoors if you can before the first nap.

Hidingawaytoday · 29/12/2022 18:57

My DD was about that age when she dropped to 1 nap - she went through a stage of waking up really early so the HV suggested dropping a nap at her 12m l check. It worked. What routine do they do at nursery? At ours, most of them are only on one nap so it worked out quite well. Could you try and earlier bedtime if 7:30 is too late?

WoMandalorian · 29/12/2022 18:58

My 2 girls have been like this. My youngest is currently 14 months and is trying to drop her final nap! 😩 it seems so early but whenever I've Googled it I'm always met with "children usually drop their final nap around age 2-3" 🙄
I'm afraid I don't really have an answer, I think some children just really fear of missing out if they nap. My first dropped all naps at 18months. My son however napped until almost age 3 so he clearly wasn't worried about what he was missing 😅

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