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9 month waking for feed still

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Emmalizzie831 · 27/09/2022 21:48

I wouldn’t say I’m at the end of my tether, but I am getting there. 🙁
my son (9 months old) keeps on waking every night at around 1 am, we try to settle him with dummy/ water/cuddles/shushing, but he cries until he has been changed and has been given 7 ounces of milk (which he drains!!!!)

so his routine usually goes like this:
wakes 5am 7oz milk about 5:30am
7:00 am porridge made with 4oz milk
try and keep him awake until 10 for 1st nap with 7oz milk
10-11:30 nap
11;45 lunch
1:30 bottle 7oz
wakes 2:45/3:00 (school run)
4:30 dinner
5:30/5:45 bath (not every night)7oz
6:15/6:45 sleep
in the first few hours he is tossing and turning and maybe having a cry so we put his dummy back in.
then he wakes at 1 am, change nappy give 7 ounces of milk. Then wakes between 5/530.

I don’t know if I am being too optimistic, but this just seems like I’m doing something wrong? He eats three meals throughout the day, so he can’t be hungry? But there is no way I could let him cry out for ages at night that’s why we give him the bottle.
ANY ADVICE IS VERY WELCOME 🙏🏽
XOXO

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olderthanyouthink · 28/09/2022 16:11

@thisismyusername321 it's tryptophan in banana. I think it's in chicken and turkey too. It helps make serotonin which effects mood and sleep.

Preg19 · 28/09/2022 19:09

sageandbasil · 28/09/2022 15:48

@Caspianberg while that's awful for you it's not the norm at 9 months so you shouldn't project onto Op looking for ways to stop the wake up

Sorry but it certainly is the norm at 9 months! Sleep is linear for around the first 2 years!

Emmalizzie831 · 29/09/2022 06:33

So….better day yesterday.
milk 8oz 6am
porridge 7am
nap 9-9:50
snack 10:15
lunch 11:45
nap 12:45-2:45
snack 3:45
tea 5:00
1/2 banana 6:00
bath 6:15
8oz milk 6:30
went down drowsy 6:45
woke 11:30 8oz feed
woke 6am
I hope this isn’t a complete coincidence but I can’t quite believe it, when I woke at 6 am to find he had only just woke up!
thanks for advice everybody 👍🏻

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SalviaOfficinalis · 29/09/2022 13:02

That’s really good! Hope it continues.

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