My son is 9 weeks old. We have a pretty good structure in place which we have been working on past few weeks and makes him a much happier baby - 1.5 hour wake windows roughly and a 1.5-2 hour nap x3 daily. This does adjust depending on what he is doing or if we are out and about etc. Problem is he will not nap at all unless on me or his dad!!! I love the cuddles but it isn’t practical and I’m worried he will become dependent on sleeping on me. Nighttime he is fine and sleep in his next to me crib. He has reflux so is held up after last bottle propped on my legs and falls asleep on his own without me holding or touching him. But daytime is another matter he needs rocking or cuddling and can’t be put down which is a bit problematic if we can’t do anything. I know he is still young but I’m really conflicted - should I be trying to get him to nap in a dark room in his next to me? As downstairs in the light he seems to just wake up (if I can put him down) at every sound. I don’t mind even sitting upstairs with him whilst he naps if I can get him to go down on his own. Or will he just grow out of needing me to hold him? Should I be putting him down drowsy but awake or is he too young for this? So confused with conflicting information, I know he needs his mum and he is only little but I would like to get a good structure in place. Does it just come with age? Would appreciate ideas from anyone who has managed to change this situation at this kind of age 2 months.