I’m definitely nearing breakdown stages, but also boring myself with sleep chat so I can’t talk to all my friends, who incidentally all have good sleepers.
My 2.5 year old has always been a terrible sleeper, but is getting worse instead of better. I wouldn’t say I was quite suicidal but I’m definitely on the edge. We’ve had problems with split nights for around 18 months - we’ve tried everything. We got to a stage of just one or two short wake ups but that didn’t last.
We’re in the process of dropping the nap completely as even with a cat nap she is then a horror going to bed & wakes loads. We had a few nights were it worked well, out like a light at 7, short wake at 1ish, then right through til 7/730.
Nursery “accidentally” let her have a nap twice last week & she’s been horrendous ever since. The last three nights I could easily have jumped off a bridge.
Fri - asleep by 7, awake 1130 for 30 minds, then 1am for 45 mins until we eventually took her in with us (which we don’t normally do), she slept on/off til 5 when I transferred her back to her cot where she slept til 9am (would never normally let her sleep that late to try & keep a routine).
Sat - again asleep by 7, awake by 830 then again 1030 then again at 3 and up for the day at 5.
Sun/last night- asleep by 645, awake an hour later, then again at 1130 UNTIL 4am, then slept til 9 again.
how the f*ck do I get out of this rut? When she wakes, she cries & cries til we go in. We’ve tried leaving her for as long as possible, going in straight away & leaving her for set periods. We paid £350 for a sleep consultant that didn’t help.
please help a desperate mother.
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LillyMac500 · 16/05/2022 09:51
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KarrotKake · 16/05/2022 17:11
I wouldn't win mother of the year. I'd feed him something with a bit of sugar, then take him to the park.
Eggs on toast, or something equally fast to prepare when we go in, then bed around 6.
Good luck!
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