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5 month old won't be put back down after 4am feed

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ForThoseThatWishToExist · 15/03/2022 10:31

Does anyone else have this? My 5 month old is EBF and sleeps for varying chunks throughout the night - each night is still pretty different. He can sleep for 4 or 5 hours one night and then the next night, he's feeding every 1.5/2/3 hours. I think we're also still experiencing the 4 month sleep regression.

However we have a current phase of feeding around 4am and although he goes straight back to sleep in my arms, I'm unable to put him back down in his cot without him waking up protesting loudly. After earlier feeds, I can move him back to his cot without him waking, but not from 4am onwards it seems. So I'm either then stuck holding him from 4am, so he can get some more sleep or he wakes up when I've tried a few times to put him back down so I can get some more sleep and our day starts then. Leaving him to settle at this time does not seem to work either.

Very much hoping this is another phase and it will pass, but just wondered if anyone else has experienced this?

I should also add, we are using some gentle sleep coaching methods to help him learn to fall asleep in his cot, but so far this is only at bedtime and not for naps or after night feeds. We do have a solid bedtime routine in place.

Any advice or solidarity gratefully appreciated!

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TwoLittleRoses · 17/03/2022 20:24

Sorry I can’t really help but just to say I’m here with you. I have an almost 5 month old who wakes often and struggles to go back down after her feed at 5am. This is when melatonin is at lowest so harder for them to fall back to sleep. I end up co sleeping/bf til it’s morning time after 5am. She ends up falling asleep bf and stays asleep this way. I also get to get a few zzzzs til my DD1 wakes me up :-/

I have been told that wake windows extend at 5 months and we should be looking at windows of around 2/2.5/2.5/3. I have started to extend mine now and hoping it will help.

Good luck …this to shall pass!

AntiHop · 17/03/2022 20:27

Co sleeping is my suggestion, after that 5 month wake up. I've been co sleeping for part of the night with my 11 month old for months

OhWifey · 17/03/2022 20:32

Cosleeping was the answer for me at the same time and at the same age!

ScatteredMama82 · 17/03/2022 20:35

My eldest did this at about the same age. It was just a phase. I ended up taking him into the spare bed with me after that feed and we both another couple of hours of sleep.

Sweetpea12 · 17/03/2022 20:36

I briefly co slept with my son at that age because he did the same thing and being a single parent I wasn’t getting any sleep after 4am. He does still start to stir around this time but I’m able to pacify him with the dummy most times and other times he needs a bottle and cuddled back over which can take up to an hour Hmm he’s almost 8 months old. I feel like he’s a light sleeper which is why he’s doing it

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