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How do I get my happy baby back?

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gulllyramsamsam · 14/03/2022 15:13

Hiya my lovely little 3YO girl became poorly about a month ago, her cough was waking her up early (5-5:30).

However since then she continues to wake up at 5am.

I feel I've tried everything but she won't sleep later. I did put her to sleep at 6:30 and she woke at 6 night before last, then did the same last night but maybe closer to 6:45, and she was up at 4:45.

She used to sleep 7/7:30 till 6:15/30.

This wouldn't be an issue if she wasn't becoming so angry through sheer tiredness. It's a behaviour I haven't ever seen in her, yesterday after her great sleep she was my angel again. Today, already its only 6:37 she has screamed the house down for her own way and hit my husband.

In the week she hit my mum and dad. When I say this isn't her, I mean it. She is so tired by 2/3pm I just can't seem to fix it.

I feel so helpless. She has a gro clock, she just lays there from 4:45 singing to herself, or gets a book.

She wakes up happy but I can't even plan to take her out at this point cause by 2/3 she will be 'angry'.

We are working on her wanting her own way separately, and that is hard enough trying to be 'gentle' but with her new tired anger I honestly feel like giving up.

I can only explain it as like I've lost her, like I've broken up with the love of my life. This imposter isn't my daughter. Dramatic I know, but she's my only one and this sleep issue feels out of my control!

How do I make my baby happy again?

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Keydaff4 · 14/03/2022 21:07

Could she still be feeling a bit under the weather? Have you tried putting her down for a nap halfway through the day to stop her getting overtired, maybe just until she’s feeling 100% again

SuperSocks · 14/03/2022 21:15

I would let her nap after lunch, 45 mins should do it, and then put her to bed at 8pm. She should start sleeping longer in the mornings, and when she's reliable there start bringing bedtime forward by 10 mins each evening until it's more like 7pm.

gulllyramsamsam · 15/03/2022 15:08

She won't nap, she sometimes falls asleep out of sheer tiredness, but if I asked her to nap or suggested it she wouldn't.

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