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4 month old suckling to sleep

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Paddlelife · 08/03/2022 13:07

TLDR; My DS has always fed to sleep and nap, which doesn't bother me too much but I've got a night out with DH next month and am worried about how my mum will get him to sleep. Any tips?

Hi everyone, so my DS has fed to sleep until about a month ago when I made more of a concerted effort to feed him at different times (between naps and plays) so now he only needs to suckle to go to sleep. This isn't a huge issue for me - apart from the occasional sore nipples - as I'm on maternity leave for another 5 months and then I work from home anyway. He's my first so I'm more than happy to give him anything he wants! 😂Grin To be honest I know this stage won't last forever and I love that special time between us.

Now the problem is me and DH have a night out in about 4 weeks time. My mum's going to be babysitting, they have a really great bond so I'm not worried about that and shes coming to ours so won't be too much change for him. We'll probably be out from about 5pm-11/12ish so this will cover his last nap and bedtime. I feel like I should prepare in advance so its not too traumatic for either of them!

He'll only nap on me or in his pram so I'm thinking it's probably best to tell her to take him for a walk for his last nap but any recommendations for what I should do to make bedtime easier for them both?

If it means completely weaning him off suckling to sleep then so be it as long as I still get cuddles as he falls to sleep, I'm not really ready to just be putting him down in his cot for it yet! I've also just got him into a decent nap/sleep routine over the last ten days (after a terrible regression) so I'm hoping not to mess that up too much with whatever I do.

Thanks in advance!

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Paddlelife · 10/03/2022 15:24

Bump! Would really appreciate any advice

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Ostryga · 10/03/2022 15:35

Tbh at 4 months old no matter what you try now, in a months time it will all be different any way!

I would do a practice run though, with you out of the house and your mum doing nap time. You may find he settles easier without the smell of milk near by.

And even if he doesn’t settle well, it’s one evening and he and your mum will be completely fine, promise.

Paddlelife · 10/03/2022 19:07

Thanks Ostryga :)

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