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HELP - Wits end!

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Ivfgottahope · 28/01/2022 22:08

My 2mo DD is impossible to nap during the day and then is consistently overtired by the evenings no matter how hard I try. She will only nap during the day if I take her out in her pram or if I go for a drive which isn’t conducive to an effective routine long term. Even in the stroller she fights it and the second I stop she starts waking. By evenings she’s utterly exhausted and is awake usually for about 4 hours grizzling. I’ve tried setting a calming routine and striking the right balance during the day between stimulating her and calm. If I try and put her down for a nap when I see the tired signals or if she’s been awake then she will fall asleep for a few minutes then wake up grizzling.

I keep reading if babies don’t nap then they’re over tired and won’t sleep well but how the heck are you supposed to overcome this if you struggle to get them to nap sufficiently!!?

Advise welcome 🙏🏼 I’m absolutely exhausted. I barely get a second to think during the day! Worth mentioning she never took to swaddling and she doesn’t like being in a sling either!

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Indecisivelurcher · 28/01/2022 22:12

Unfortunately you've just got to do what you need to get through this stage. And it is a stage! Walk, drive, rock, pat, do what you can. Evening fussiness is quite normal too I'm afraid. Just keep doing your best. Drink strong coffee and say yes to cake.

firstimemamma · 28/01/2022 22:17

If she's your first, can she nap on you? When you rule out the pram I'd seriously re-think this. Don't think about 'long-term' as the previous poster has said - if the pram works for now then do it as much as you can. I have vivid memories of forever marching around the block with my 5 month old (who is now 3 and it all feels like a distant memory!). Good luck and remember 2 months is still incredibly young & you can't really expect anything of them Thanks

lady725516 · 28/01/2022 22:27

Agree with pp, she's still really small and all she wants is to be with you. Does she sleep if you let her sleep on you? How much milk is she having?

The early days can be so hard but they will go quickly and hopefully she can get into a routine for you soon enough x

Aria999 · 28/01/2022 23:17

Don't worry too much about the future. Just do whatever it takes to achieve a nap today. Everything changes so fast at this age. Both mine initially wouldn't nap unless they were in the sling but then they changed. Dd won't nap anywhere except her crib now.

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