I've been reading through some messages here on bad night sleeping and am still completely lost on what to do. My DD doesn't just cry out in the night but works herself up into a complete frenzy, the only thing that stops her is bf. I'm desperate to stop feeding her in the night and completely exhausted, but she will scream until she gets it. Tonight i've just held out for 1.5 hours and the neighbours have been banging on the wall. She screams with me rubbing her back in the cot, holding her, singing or talking gently to her, rocking her etc. I've had her ears checked by the doc this week. Visited a cranial osteo too, will go back again next week etc but in meantime i'm beginning to lose the plot. She used to sleep well but teething and a horrid cold have completly messed that up. Any suggestions? We;vew got to the point where she can't get to sleep without bf but don't seem to have any more options to help us change.