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8 month sleep regression - please tell me it gets better!

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Karenah86 · 26/09/2021 11:32

My DS turned 8 months a few days ago and right on cue his night time sleep has gone to pot! From about 6 months he has been settling himself to sleep at bedtime, waking once in the night for a bottle, then settling himself straight back to sleep until around 6.30am where he's up for the day. Completely manageable! The last few nights however he's been waking up 2-3 times in the night, screaming the place down and he's really difficult to get back to sleep. It can take 1-1.5 hours to settle him and I usually resort to rocking him to sleep (bad habit I know but I get desparate at silly o'clock in the morning). It's so knackering and also heartbreaking to see him so upset. He's a happy little thing during the day. He's just learnt to crawl, trying to pull himself up on everything and generally loving life. He still self settles at bedtime but only after a lot of sitting up, crawling around, pulling himself up etc. Eventually he's so tired he just conks out 😂

Just wondering if there's anyone else going through this right now or anyone that's gone through this and made it out the other side! I keep telling myself it's just a phase and won't last forever but also praying that it doesn't last too long! Not quite sure how I'm going to survive if it carries on much longer, probably through a combination of sheer determination and a lot of coffee!

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Tee20x · 26/09/2021 11:44

Mine is about to turn 9 months and I had a rough few weeks of multiple wake ups random crying etc. Last week was the worst though, I think I got maybe 6 hours sleep across 3 days. We co-sleep and I still feed to sleep (I know I know) but she wasn't having any of it. It would take about 45 mins to settle her and then another 20 for her to be sleeping.

As soon as I'd close my eyes hers would ping open and the cycle would start again. Truly truly awful honestly I was crying in the night through tiredness.

Anyway, this week she has been sleeping ok with just one brief wake up and I'm counting my lucky stars as I don't want to return to that level of tiredness again.

Karenah86 · 26/09/2021 13:40

@Tee20x sorry to hear you've been having troubles too. That sounds awful! You must've been shattered. Although it is slightly encouraging to know I'm not the only one going through this right now! It's hell though isn't it? I've had a few nights of tears too. I really hope your DD is coming out the other side. I guess the only real way to 'fix' a regression is time. Fingers crossed you have another good night tonight.

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Vicky1989x · 26/09/2021 21:13

My DD is 16 months now but the 8 month regression was the worst one so I remember it very well 😂 it lasted a few weeks, I think it coincides with separation anxiety but it does get better!

seaandsandcastles · 27/09/2021 03:16

Yep, 6 weeks into the 8 month sleep regression and no sign of it going yet!

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