Dd is 3 months (2 and a half adjusted) and I've been getting so stressed about her naps and wake windows etc. I know shes still only little but I stress myself out so much about how much/ how little should be sleeping, when she should be sleeping, where she should be sleeping and its making me worried I'm doing it all wrong. She will only sleep on me in the day really at the moment although does sleep in her crib at night and if shes on me she can sleep for a good 2 hours at least which worries me is too much. I'm also stressing about her bedtimes and getting her down at the right times and having naps at the right times. I think I've read far too much stuff, most of which has different advice but a lot of which seems to say babies should be in a routine, napping at certain times, awake for certain times and in bed at certain times which means some days I feel like I am just clock watching all day to try and get it right and then she is asleep too long one day it all goes out of the window and I feel like I've failed. Sorry for long post but I guess I just want reassurance that it is ok to just go with baby and not stress too much about routines etc especially at this age. thanks in advance from a stressed mummy who just wants to do the best for her little one.