So my 20 month DD is slowly going to bed later and later to the point its now normally between 9-10pm. Which then means she wakes up late as well. I know I could wake her earlier to try and start the day early but I dont like to think shes not getting enough night sleep... maybe I should just do it? Otherwise she wakes around 8:30 - 9am.
She has always gone on awake windows rather than a time schedule so she needs at least 5 hours awake before shes even ready for a nap and thats if im lucky - she normally is awake for 6 hours before a nap.
Her naps are around 1hour but can last 2 hours.
She also has childcare from my mum and MIL 3 days a week and sometimes she doesnt nap with them until around 3pm meaning she doesnt wake until 4pm which is just a vicious circle because then she isnt ready for bed until late yet again.
Any advice? Do I need to start waking her earlier or start dropping nap etc she struggles without a nap at the moment