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Is this the 9 month sleep regression?

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anonnancy · 07/10/2020 06:49

Hi all.

DS has been a relatively good night sleeper since birth, napping wasn’t great for the first 6 months and the 4 month sleep regression was hell but did pass quickly enough.

He is now 9 months old and has suddenly started waking at 5/5:30 am of a morning and I am slowly losing the will to live with these early starts.

Before he was sleeping really well. Through the night, 6:30-6:15/6:30 or 7-6:30. He was having two good naps a day, 9/9:30-10:30/11 and then another nap 13:30/1400-14:30/15:00 and then bedtime between 6:30/7pm.

Bedtime routine has stayed the same, he has a bottle before I put him down but he is always put down awake. He has a comforter and multiple dummies in the cot. He self settles with no fuss within 15/20 minutes of babbling, playing with dummy/comforter... then usually rolls onto his side and falls to sleep.

Recently, there has been occasions where when he is put down, he will roll onto his front (which he never does in the day) and then screams because he hates being on his front... so I will go up and flip him over as he won’t roll back himself (even though he can!) he eventually settles down and once he’s asleep that’s usually it for the night.

He now is for some reason waking at 5/5;30 and will not go back to sleep. I’ve tried a few nights of a later bedtime but he just gets so grumpy I feel bad keeping him up as he is so desperate to go to bed, and he still wakes early and ends up having even less sleep. He’s a happy little chap and eats really well, 3 meals a day and 3 bottles, although He is on a milk strike at the minute but I can usually get at least 17oz in him over the day. He also has a mid morning snack to replace the bottle he dropped around 7 months.

He isn’t crawling yet but trying desperately...

Is the early waking just a phase I need to grit my teeth and get through, and if so, how long should I expect it to last? Google tells me anywhere between 3-6 weeks.... but hoping it’s not as long as that! Just as he was starting to sleep through I feel like it’s been snatched away from me and I feel so down about it haha.

If you’ve reached the end - I applaud you!
Thank you for reading. Any advice? Or words of reassurance from any 9 month sleep regression survivors would be lovely! X

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Dexy2020 · 07/10/2020 07:12

Oh I totally feel for you! We haven't since past 5am since July and he's currently going through a phase of 03:30/4am wake ups (Currently 8 months old) it's totally rubbish! I'm making sure I'm asleep by around 8/8:30pm so I can function 😂hope it passes quickly!! ☕🍰🍷🍾Xx

anonnancy · 07/10/2020 08:08

@Dexy2020 oh we had a bout of 3:30 wake ups around 7/8 months...! but I settled him back with a 4oz feed... not the best way but it got us all back to sleep within 10/15 mins until 6:30!

I should be grateful he is sleeping through I suppose - just hate getting up earlier than 6am! We are still awake at the min, trying to push first nap back to his normal time so he isn’t napping too early! makes another large coffee ☕️ x

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Dexy2020 · 07/10/2020 08:17

@anonnancy very much contemplating restarting a night feed tbh! Mine went bk to bed at 7am after waking at 03:50am and he's unusually still asleep, think he must be doing a bit of catching up as he's not been able to do more than about a 40 min nap over the last few days, enjoy your coffee hope you get a good nap!! Xx

MamaD14 · 13/10/2020 22:50

I believe I am in the midst of one... Well I hope so! He used to sleep through until 5am and I fed him which I didn't mind cause he went back to 7am. Now he wakes at 10pm then is up every 2 hours and is ready to party at 4:30am. I'm ready to lose it! Pray it ends soon 🙏

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