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3 Month Old Waking at 5am

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AlTaylor86 · 20/07/2020 20:50

Hi All,

I thought I'd just put a little post on here in the hope of getting some advice from some of you more experienced mamas!

My 3 month old has developed a habit of waking at 5am and only going back to sleep if brought in to bed with us, where as soon as his little head hits our mattress he's fast asleep till 7am.

He currently goes to bed every night at around 7.30pm after his regular night time bath, bottle, bed routine. He goes to sleep like a dream and nods off as soon as I put him down without any fuss. He has a dream feed at around 11pm, he then wakes himself anytime between 3-4am for another bottle, and then like clockwork will wake again at 5am and won't settle, although tired, until brought in to our bed.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how we can break this pattern of him getting used to finishing off the night in with us? We've tried rocking him back to sleep as well as going in every time he stirs to put his dummy back in, however he never seems to be able to stay asleep for longer than 10-15mins when we do that, it's exhausting.

He naps 4-5 times a day for about 30-45 mins each nap (he's a short napper!), and can usually only stay awake for 1.5hour in between each nap.

Any tips or advice appreciated! :)

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
SandieCheeks · 20/07/2020 21:03

Mine all did this, I just enjoyed the morning snuggles. My only tip is to stay in bed til 7am and don't be tempted to start treating 5am as "morning".

winniesanderson · 20/07/2020 21:53

My youngest has pretty much always done this at some point in the night. I think she's only actually slept through in her own bed past 6am once and she's just turned 2. I will be honest though we've mostly just chosen the path of least resistance and got on with it. If we're asleep when she wakes up she tends to spend the rest of the night in with us. It has gotten a lot better over time though. Used to be that she would barely do an hour in her cot. And I look at my ten year old who I have to practically bribe out of bed some mornings and live in hope that the youngest will be the same one day 😂. I do enjoy the morning cuddles when she's had a decent night though. Not so much the middle of the night ones when we've barely been asleep ourselves. And if you're waking lots for feeds in the night I'd be tempted to just enjoy the extra sleep.

AmieB · 24/01/2021 23:11

@AlTaylor86 did you ever resolve this... our 12 week old has done this for well ... 12 weeks!! And I really want to break this habit!! Like you I have no idea why he's waking and he just refuses to settle unless brought into our bed where he is asleep within seconds. Interested to see whether a few months down the line you worked it out and it stopped? X

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