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8 month sleep regression HELL.

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oneseriouslytiredmumma · 10/07/2020 19:35

Bit of a back story for you - My DD had always co slept with me and DP from birth right up until 7 months old. We tried for weeks to get her into her own cot and every attempt was a complete fail. I decided to finally take the plunge after months and months of rubbish sleep and gently sleep train her after being recommended to read the Lucy Wolfe Baby Sleep Solution book and successfully managed to use the stay and support method to transition her into her own cot (still in our bedroom) within 1 night. Prior to this she was waking anything between 3-4 times per night but even when she would sleep we would both be left there lying wide awake because she is a reeeeealllll fidget ass. Anyway, the first night she slept right the way through from 7-7. I’m not joking when I say I felt like I’d hit the fricking jackpot. This was the first night she had EVER done this and especially with it being her first night in her big girl cot - I thought I’d finally managed to crack the problem. After that we had maybe another 5 nights or so of great sleep, the odd wake up through the night here and there but was easily settled with a couple of oz’s of milk and she seemed to happily roll over and nod back off. Then this fucking sleep regression thing came creeping in. We are on week 4 now of her literally waking every single hour around the clock, which 5 out of 7 nights will also include like a 2/3 hour wakeful period in the night aswell and then still up for the day between 5-6:30. For the love of god I’ve never been soooooo sleep deprived in my life. She literally wakes up balling and won’t go back to sleep unless held and even then when out of desperation I take her out the cot and place her in bed with us, she’s still waking up constantly crying.

How long does this frigging thing take to go back to normal? I know there’s no ‘magic’ solution to fixing a regression but if anyone has any of there regression stories to share so I don’t feel like I’m the only mama on the planet to be experiencing this and let me know how long there LO’s lasted. I feel like it might help me to see a light at the end of this long ass tunnel.

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BellyMama · 10/07/2020 20:34

I’ve just put up a post about how my child slept so well and now won’t go to sleep or stay asleep. I have no advice as in my own personal hell here too but you’re not alone!

oneseriouslytiredmumma · 10/07/2020 20:50

@BellyMama I’ve just read. I reeeeeally feel your pain honestly. It’s the most frustrating thing in the world. I literally spent 2 hours in the night last night balling my eyes out because I was just SO tired and bubs was wide awake after already having to settle her back to sleep 4 times previously. It’s comforting to know I’m not the only mom in the world who’s currently trying to wing my way through this shit show though.

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Pinkflipflop85 · 10/07/2020 21:13

We are having the same at the moment.

Calpol before bed helps because her teeth are really bothering her.

Pinkflipflop85 · 10/07/2020 21:14

I've also got into the bad habit of too much coffee during the day to cope with the sleep deprivation but it then has a knock on effect and messes up her sleep.

BellyMama · 14/07/2020 10:10

I’ve no idea if this is something you’re already using but if not, buy a baby sleeping bag! Has literally changed my life 😂 no exaggeration whatsoever! She still wakes but is SO much easier to get to sleep or back to sleep, I feel like a new person!

BabyLlamaZen · 14/07/2020 10:25

Honestly, I think it's just something they go through. You can try whatever and when they have a regression, they have a regression. Does it help if she's back in your bed? Do what you can to ride it out and be kind to yourself. It wont last forever. Promise! Flowers

Rainsworth · 22/07/2020 21:01

Honestly the regression around this age was the worst. Just as you thought you’d got it BOOM. It didn’t last long for me though, and I found some great tips on this thread www.peanut-app.io/posts/5pnh-kdb

popgoesperfection · 25/07/2020 06:12

No advice op but I feel your pain!! This regression is horrendous. I too thought I had cracked it, sleeping 6-8 hours waking for a bottle then back down for a couple of hours, then bam, 8 month sleep regression ques waking every hour and 2 hours in the middle of the night too. I am SO tired my eyes hurt. I know it doesn't last forever but I'm still struggling and can't wait for it to pass!!!

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