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5 month old suddenly won’t resettle and screaming

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OliviaRain · 31/05/2020 09:24

Tired mum here desperate to get my baby’s sleep back on track!

My baby is 5 months and has suddenly become impossible to resettle after waking to feed and It’s getting gradually worse. When she goes to bed she falls asleep in her crib by our bed with a little help from me. Usually she wakes around midnight for a feed and has been going back down ok, then waking one or two more times in the night and needing to be resettled or fed to go back to sleep.

The last week it’s been hard to resettle her after about 3am and she’s rolling around in her crib and getting frustrated. Every time we get her asleep she’s awake and crying within about 2 minutes and we start again. Its ended with me bringing her into our bed at about 3am and banishing hubbie to the spare room. Last night was next level though, she woke and fed at 11:30pm and when I tried to resettle her began screaming at the top of her lungs. It went on for an hour and a half with no break and I was even scared she was going to hurt herself with the inconsolable yelling. She wouldn’t take my boob to calm down (ebf) and I had no idea what was wrong. Put her in bed with me once she finally calmed down and she literally slept the whole night and didn’t even move! Whilst it was great to finally get some sleep it’s not a solution for us as I’ve never wanted to cosleep and don’t want to be that couple who sleep apart (no judgement to those who do).

I don’t know what’s gone wrong, she hasn’t been a good sleeper for a while but it’s going downhill fast! We were hoping to move her to her room at 6 months but I don’t see how that will be an option if this doesn’t change. Any suggestions welcome. Thank you!

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Ohnoherewego62 · 31/05/2020 09:26

Is she possibly too warm??

They can go through regressions to do with sleep. Mines was a great sleeper for months. Then all of a sudden, cried and incessantly unsettled until I resorted to co sleeping for months. (Miss it now as shes older and usually sleeps great).

Any signs of teeth? How often is she sleeping during day and does she appear well?

OliviaRain · 31/05/2020 09:39

It has been much warmer in the house which could be contributing. We have the gro egg and have been able to get it down to 22 degrees at night with a fan on and the windows open and she’s been sleeping without her gro bag as I’m nervous about her overheating. No signs whatsoever of teeth yet although I’m sure that won’t be long. She appears well and had no temperature when we took it last night. Napping isn’t great so I don’t know if it might be contributing - she’s taking very short (30/45 min) naps most of the time and is between 3 and 4 naps a day (4 seems to many now but 3 not quite enough)

I don’t mind the co sleeping and she’s lovely to wake up next to but it’s not something I ever planned to do as I’m a heavy sleeper and I worry I’m not alert enough to have her next to me at night! Shock

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Tessie87 · 01/06/2020 13:55

Not much advice but just to say my five month old is doing the same thing! We originally co-slept but managed to break that and things were going well. Now he’s struggling to settle again after the night feeds. Also the naps have dropped to 30-40 minutes but he will only have two all day! It’s like we take one step forward and two back!

fran200 · 01/06/2020 14:48

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Gin4thewin · 01/06/2020 15:02

DD Is 6months, about 3 weeks ago she kept waking at 3am and screaming right through anything between 5-7am. Shes slept through for months so was bit of a shock to the system. Can you dream feed her before she wakes up? Try one of your tshirts over her mattress so bed smells of you. Dd was bought a chico bear that lights up and plays music, DP got it out and i almost scoffed at him, but it bloody worked, she was so busy watching the lights she forgot she was screeching and fell asleep!

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