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Pippinsqueak · 13/05/2020 03:51

I have posted many times about my daughter who is the worlds worst sleeper. 16 months old, used to be breast fed to sleep but for the past two months my husband has been fantastic and puts her to bed every night without much fuss. I have even managed to get her to sleep without the boob 🎉

She will sleep between 2-4 hours initially but then frequently wakes crying for the next 2-4 hours before crashing out again around 4am until 7 ish (she will wake once in that time but is fed back to sleep with no issues). She's not fully awake unless I leave her to cry for a few mins, she kinda just sits up crying half asleep. Sometimes I can manage to get her back to sleep by rubbing her back/shushing her, sometimes I feed her, sometimes my husband takes over ( like he is now whilst I write this post).

My problem is not getting her to sleep, it's staying asleep so "sleep training" doesn't work as that means changing/making things worse for the initial bed time and we've got that down to a fine art. She has a good bed time routine, she has between 1-2 naps a day, always up at least four hours before bed time.

Why won't she stay asleep?? Am I missing something? Is it a sign of something ?

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Livingthroughcrazy · 14/05/2020 23:59

Hi OP,

I could have written this post! I too have a 16mth DD who is currently doing the same. Breastfed also, sleeps in cot, goes to bed fine them #boom she's awake, won't settle and can be up for hours.

I have no advice as I am scrambling around myself wondering where it's all gone so wrong. I've read there is a sleep regression at 18 months (perhaps this is early onset?) and that wee ones are so busy that they might be over stimulated at night, affecting sleep cycles. Teething, wind Confused

We are on a roll of 5 nights so far from hell. I'm so tired I could sleep standing up.

If you find the magic then please sprinkle some of it in this direction ThanksCake

Pippinsqueak · 15/05/2020 13:54

Hi I keep thinking I've done something wrong too. I'm glad ( but not glad) I'm not the only one going through this. I was thinking early sleep regression too. But if not, it can't get much worse can't it ?? Lol

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Livingthroughcrazy · 15/05/2020 22:17

Good grief I hope it doesn't get any worse but this hasn't filled me with hope.

According to this link the 18 month sleep regression can be one of the worst and can start from 16 months. It requires us as parents to be "patient and wait it out for circ 3 weeks.." Confused
Good Lord.

https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-sleep-patterns/why-18-month-sleep-regression-can-be-hardest/

Good luck OP

.... goes on Amazon to order earplugs ....

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