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4 month old sleep problems, please help!!

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MummaW88 · 23/04/2020 14:02

Hi all,

I’m new to mumsnet so apologies if I don’t use all the acronyms etc!

I’m a first time mum, my daughter has just turned 4 months old. Out of nowhere, she has started becoming absolutely hysterical when it comes to nap/bedtime. It doesn’t matter whether I pick her up, hold her, rock her, shhhh her, pat her, put her down.

She has always had white noise playing, I make sure the room temperature is right, she’s fed and clean. Nothing physically bothering her that I can tell, she seems well within herself (although I think she is teething). I try putting her down for naps at the recommended times, I watch out for her signs of her becoming tired. It doesn’t seem to matter what I do!

She has eventually cried herself out over the last couple of days, but I really don’t feel comfortable with leaving her to scream every time she has a nap. But nothing I do seems to comfort her.

I’ve called my HV for advice and am waiting to hear back from them.

Any helpful advice would be very welcome. I’m new to being a mum and trying my best, especially in these difficult times. But this is wearing me down :(

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MummaW88 · 24/04/2020 09:29

@Aleshia31 is she just doing it in her sleep or is it waking her up?

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Ilovethekittehs · 24/04/2020 09:59

My son has been in his cot (in our room) since three months old, no issues for us.

Aleshia31 · 24/04/2020 12:09

It's waking her up .. it's not a new thing as she's always done it but now it's every 15 min waking her up. I'm great full she's not crying but when she's slept through all night for so long it's a shock to the system ... we don't have space for the cot In our room so was thinking of trying the pram ? Xx

MummaW88 · 24/04/2020 13:17

@Aleshia31 I know it sounds a bit harsh but if she’s not crying, have you tried just leaving her to it? I was really against leaving my LO to cry/moan at first but with her not settling with me holding her, I’ve had no choice but to try it and she does eventually go back to sleep. If the pram is safe for her to sleep in then I can’t see any reason why not! Or maybe look at getting a Next 2 Me crib as they’re a bit bigger than a Moses basket but smaller than a crib? That’s what my daughter sleeps in and it’s quite roomy. Xx

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Aleshia31 · 24/04/2020 20:32

Yeah I know what you mean I'm gonna see how tonight goes and offer a feed if she wakes up ... she's never really been a big night feeder but I'd imagine she's going through a growth spurt x yeah she has the Venicci travel system and it rocks if you place it on the floor xx

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