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5am wake ups

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Mazzatron · 20/04/2020 05:23

Hello.

My 16 month old has often been an early bird but lately he's up at 5am every day. He doesn't generally cry but he stands up in his cot and calls out 'daddy' (he can't say Mummy yet!) and he rattles the door handle trying to open the door, waking everyone up.

He has been transitioning to 1 nap in recent weeks but when he's up this early often needs 2. He either naps around 8ish for 20- 30 mins or so and then at lunch for 1.5 hours. Or he'll refuse morning nap and just nap at lunch for 1-2 hours. He goes to bed at 7 unless he's only napped for 1 hour that day, then I put him down at 6 - 6:30.

We've gone through patches where he wakes around 6:15 and it's so much better for everyone. He gets very tired and crabby when he starts the day at 5. I do think he's teething at the moment, he got a new molar last week. His teeth seem to take ages to come through and they come one at a time and not in the right order!

He's got a black out blind but thb it's still pitch black at 5. We've also tried white noise. He eats really well and does plenty of activity throughout the day. I generally go to bed at 8:30 so I can cope with the early starts. Which is getting pretty boring!

Is there anything we could try to get him to wake slightly later? Any suggestions welcome!

BrewBrewBrew
Thank you. A tired mum.

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Whereland · 20/04/2020 05:41

No answers because I'm sitting here in the same boat!! I have a 1 year old and a 2 year old. Both wake very very early. The 1 year old woke at 4.30 this morn. I got him back to sleep for 10 mins then that was it. it's exhausting

DaisyintheCloud · 20/04/2020 05:47

Would love to hear the answer to this. Have a 3 year old who has been up since 4:50. This is not at all uncommon for us and after more than a year we are all about broken with it.

lboogy · 20/04/2020 05:47

I was reading this trying to find answers.

Last week I tried a later bedtime- 7.30-8pm which seemed to help get dc to sleep until 7am.

I returned to earlier bedtime because he'd get crabby around 6.30 /7. I'll just have to keep him up later.

1066vegan · 20/04/2020 06:10

My dd was an early riser as a baby and toddler, often awake at 5ish. I think lots of young children are real larks.

The only thing that really made a difference for her was starting school. It wore her out so much that it was hard work waking her up in the mornings. Now that she's a teenager, she can easily sleep all morning.

Children's natural sleep patterns do seem to be very different at different ages.

ELM8 · 20/04/2020 06:18

Have you tried a blackout blind? I can sometimes squeeze some extra sleep out of my little one by keeping it dark?

EezyOozy · 20/04/2020 06:20

The only thing that stopped my now 2yo waking at 5 (or earlier) was only allowing her to sleep for 1 hour during the day.

MrsP2015 · 20/04/2020 06:51

Hi guys, I'm in the 5am club too!

2 yo now but has always done this.

Room is dark, later bedtime makes no difference to the 5am wake ups.

Naps in day or no naps make no difference.

Help!

Achooo · 20/04/2020 06:54

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devildeepbluesea · 20/04/2020 06:59

Have you looked at wake to sleep? Theory is you rouse the child about half an hour before their 5am wake up (yes, feels very risky!) - but only enough to unsettle them. They then start another sleep cycle, thereby sleeping on past 5am.

DD was about 16 months when I tried it. I was crapping myself, thinking I'd just wake her even earlier. But it did work, and I only did it for 2-3 nights.

cantbeatfreshsheets · 29/04/2020 19:57

My 15 month old daughter usually wakes at this time. I tend to give her a bottle and just leave her to go back off which I'd say 70% of time she does. Just pretend it's still night time and hand him one and see? Worth a try. Doesn't he have a comforter?

Mazzatron · 29/04/2020 23:12

@cantbeatfreshsheets yeah he has a comforter and his cuddly La La in his cot which he loves at bed time. I have tried bottle / cuddles / rocking / telling him it's still nighttime, he's just raring to go and ready to start the day. He gets excited and starts chatting away and laughing as soon as I pick him up.
He sleeps through from 7pm so maybe I should just suck it up. He's super cute and I love him so much. I'm sure he won't be waking me up at 5am all his life long!
I find that I can cope with it most the time but then I get the odd morning I just really need a little more sleep! Hence this post 😬

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