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Oh no, not you again!

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bria · 07/09/2002 23:42

I wrote previously in August concerning my DD who would not nap during the day. Thanks to all who responded. I now find it's getting easier to get her to sleep albeit for short intervals ie. half an hour at a time! My problem now it that I have become a social recluse, when we visit her problem returns she screams and screams gets overtired and screams and screams some more until she eventually falls into a fitful sleep - I'm sure friends and family dread our visits - i've noticed them giving me and my DD wincing looks - it can get really embarassing - I feel as if I am the worst parent ever - is this sleep thing a common problem - none of them seem to believe me when I say that she is crying because she is overtired - they think that she crying because she dosn't want to sleep and perhaps has another problem such as colic,even when I try to convince them, I know they are doubting me. I feel as if I am the worst parent ever! Two have said that they have never known a baby to cry as much as my DD! -Obviously I can't remain at home with her forever, and i'm sure in time she'll grow out of this - i've tried visiting around her awake times but she always seems to be tired as she never has sufficient sleep in one stretch - she has come a long way since I wrote in August and I no longer rock her to sleep! - but it is all very painstaking - I seem to be taking two steps forward and three back! have any other mothers experienced this - If so, can you give me any advice please?

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sven · 09/09/2002 17:21

Bria - I missed your message in August so apologise if my point misses your point (if you know what I mean!) - my dd does the same thing sometimes - always when overtired - though people always ask if she's hungry which can be annoying. I find that once she gets to that state the only way she will go to sleep is by being left alone or pushed in pushchair. Are either of these things options when you are out visiting?
Probably not much help but have faith in your instincts when others question what you are doing.

buttercup · 11/09/2002 13:30

my ds used to cry alot (he had reflux), it was really stressful. I basically used to spend time doing things that we easy for him and enjoyable for me - going to the park mostly. At about six months he started to grow out of it.

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