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Olivia1987 · 07/11/2019 00:02

Tonight my son has screamed himself hoarse. Putting him down to sleep was horrendous he got so worked up. There’s normally screaming and it takes about half an hour for him to settle in his cot I leave him awake if he starts crying I go in. Tonight he screamed and screamed. He bangs his head and throws himself against the cot in his rage.

He woke up an hour later (again this is usual and happens nightly all night long) I brought him into bed with me (I’ve resorted to having a single mattress in his bedroom which we sleep on together (I’m trying to make it as easy as possible for myself after months of not much sleep) he won’t settle he started screaming again, bashing his head on the wall. I offer him water he throws his bottle, I offer squash (I’m desperate) he throws his bottle. He just keeps screaming. I give him calpol. Doesn’t help. Every hour he wakes screaming and hurting himself. He won’t go to sleep. He won’t sleep in my arms he won’t sleep next to me. It’s never been this bad. He’s just pushing me away when I try to comfort him.

I’m sat in the dark crying while he screams in his cot. Hopeless!

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managedmis · 07/11/2019 00:03

Really sorry op, feel your pain.

How old is he?

managedmis · 07/11/2019 00:04

Dummy? Hunger? Too cold? Too warm? Bedroom too light? Not tired enough? Does he nap during the day?

Olivia1987 · 07/11/2019 00:05

He’s 15 months. I just can’t settle him. I’m so tired. I’m just ignoring him at the minute because if I go to him he’ll smash his head against the cot. He’s beside himself. Honestly no idea whats wrong

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Olivia1987 · 07/11/2019 00:08

He’s throwing his dummy, he’s had a good supper. He doesn’t drink milk at night. His room is 17 degrees he’s normally fine I haven’t changed anything. It’s dark his hummy is on. He’s got a bottle. His nappy is fine,

He normally has two naps an hour each but he’s only had 40 minutes today (they couldn’t settle him at nursery)

He’s just in such a state

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KellyHall · 07/11/2019 00:11

Could it be night terrors? My dd started getting them around 18 months and they were truly terrifying, for us, she has no knowledge of them.

Has he always been the same? Does it happen every, single night? For dd, it only happens when she's overtired: during the night or daytime naps, if she hasn't had enough rest in the hours/days beforehand.

www.nhs.uk/conditions/night-terrors/

Olivia1987 · 07/11/2019 00:39

I’m so sorry your little girl went through that. He’s never normally this bad. He’s definitely awake when he’s screaming and I think he’s screaming because he’s awake. He doesn’t want to but can’t help it. I don’t know hes let me pick him up finally. He fell asleep on me for 20 minutes woke up screaming and now has just settled again in my arms but I know it won’t be for long

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