My little boy is currently 18 weeks old, he was a relatively good sleeper we always had issue from about 5 weeks getting him to sleep but once he was asleep he was fine. He did suffer from reflux and colic.l but that stopped at about 10/12 weeks and everything was getting better. He would go down about 7/8pm and wake up once between 2 and 4. We have always struggled with naps due to his reflux he would never take them and when we managed them it would have to be on me as he wasn’t comfortable lying flat. Nap lengths have improved but I’m still unable to have him nap anywhere but me. I’ve tried putting him in his cot it just takes so long for him to settle and then he usually ends up just wide awake again. Recently he’s been going to bed at his normal time of about 7 - putting him in his cot and then waking up between half 9 and half 10.. I don’t know if this is my fault as he had dropped a feed so I started dream feeding him when I went to bed. But now he won’t settle and he ends up co sleeping in our bed! I’ve been reading about self settling but I just don’t understand he just won’t do it! I’ve tried stroking his and shushing nothing is seeming to work to get him to settle in his cot.