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2.5 sudden out of the blue doesn't want to go to bed

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Newmum26 · 30/10/2019 20:10

My DS has always been brilliant at bedtime we take him in, say night night and do kisses and cuddles and then leave the room and close the door saying Night night as we leave.
Tonight completely out of no where we did exactly the same and as I went to leave the room he was crying 'No mummy don't go please don't' and was hysterical. He said he didn't want to go to bed and wanted mummy to cuddle him.
This has coincided with me leaving him with my mum today and he was hysterical when I went to leave. I left anyway as I had work and mum said he had calmed down within 15 minutes.
I can't understand this sudden change in behaviour it's like he's super clingy and is now scared of me leaving him. He finally went to sleep after we read a book in bed and I crept out but he wanted me to leave the light on which is also out of character.
Anyone been through similar experiences and how best to deal with it please? I don't want to not give him the comfort and reassurance he needs but also don't want to create any bad habits by sitting with him until asleep or bringing him back out etc.
Please help 😭😭

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Newmum26 · 31/10/2019 07:12

Anyone?

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Newmum26 · 31/10/2019 18:34

Bump

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GummyGoddess · 31/10/2019 19:42

Let me know, my amazing sleeper now requires daddy to lay on the bedroom floor for 2 hours before he will sleep for the last week or so.

Newmum26 · 31/10/2019 21:23

Oh wow glad it's not just us then 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ Be nice to hear anyone else's experiences!

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GenevaMaybe · 01/11/2019 07:47

It is common at this age for children to suddenly develop fears. You could try a little nightlight or special teddy. Be reassuring but consistent. If you stay with him you confirm his fears that being alone is scary

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