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Help! One year old taking two hours to go to sleep!

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flipdip · 01/09/2019 20:37

Currently still waiting for her to go to sleep having started tonight's bedtime at 6.30pm!

My daughter is 15 months old. She is a good sleeper - self-settles throughout the night. Goes to sleep alone without rocking or being held (cut that out a while ago and don't want to take a backward step). Although I do sit in the room until she is asleep, in an armchair in the corner pretending to be asleep myself!

She wakes around 7am. She has one nap a day now which is around about 12/12.30pm and lasts for a couple of hours. For this she goes into her cot, rolls over and falls asleep within ten minutes - no fuss, no crying. I always have to wake her and that is no later than 3pm. Dinner is 5pm and she is in bed at 7pm. We have a solid and consistent bedtime routine of bath, milk in her room with lights low and a couple of stories.

As soon as the lights go out bedtime is then full of her standing up, screaming, throwing her dummy across the room, wanting picking up then screaming to be put back down. I've abandoned bedtime a few times and then she is happy as Larry downstairs until about 10pm which is a nightmare!

What are your thoughts on what's going wrong at bedtime? I seem to be doing everything the same and nap works but bedtime doesn't!

I have an 8 year old with autism and ADHD who also refuses to sleep - I can't cope with the baby doing this too!!!

OP posts:
littlestrawby · 01/09/2019 20:42

Have you tried a shorter nap? Maybe limit to one hour/1.5 and see if that makes much difference?

Jesse70 · 01/09/2019 20:45

I can sympathise
Mine is 27 months and has only started going down at a reasonable time since dropping their last nap
The only way I could get them down before 9/10 when they were still napping was totally forcing it and taking them out in the car about 11 until they fell asleep so nap was over by 1 pm at the latest
I so think your nap is a bit late so would probably interfere with the time she goes down I mean that's only a few hours after a long nap
At that age I think they recommend a minimum of 5(I would say6/7tho) hours between naps but then u could be stuck with a moody toddler until bedtime

So good that she normally self settles tho that's brilliant I still have to BF mine

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