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Please help me and DH wean ourselves of the heartbeat monitor in DS's cot!

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LowFatMilkshake · 18/07/2007 14:14

Because our DS had some breathing problems at 8 week, we were advised to get a monitor that includes a heartbeat censor for when he went into his cot.

In all his life it's only gone off a few times over a few nights, when I believe he was actually a bit cold and his heart rate lowered as it went off and then stopped.

I've been to the GP about this episode and my GP asked why I had the monior and if I had one when I DD, I explained the reasons and said 'no' we did'nt have a heartbeat moniotor with DD. So he said to chuck it away. And pointed out that all today parents were babies themselves who all survived without monitors as did every generation before them. And that the technology in this case is making me paranoid.

DS is now 7 months and more active in his sleep so he often moves of the censor, which has led to it going off a bit. And I've actually been in his room when it's gone off and I could still hear him breathing.

So I think it's about time to start thinking about turning it off, and jsut using it as a sound monitor. But I just can't bring myself to do it. At this rate I'll still be insisting on it when he's 16!

Any thoughts???

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IsabelWatchingItRainInMacondo · 18/07/2007 14:18

I think that you already know what you have to do. Would it help to start turning the monitor off a couple of hours at a time, then increase the time it is off little by little?

Or, if you feel comfortable, let DS sleep with you for a week with the monitor off. Then send him back to his room?

tutu100 · 18/07/2007 14:21

I had a monitor for ds. We stopped using it when ds was a year old and started rolling off the sensor pad. I think as your son is now doing this it is a good time to stop. I just checked in on my ds more regularly when I was awake and gradually went longer between checks. For a while I did leave the pad under the mattress, but didn't turn it on. That meant if I had a change of heart I could just switch it back on, but I never did.

LowFatMilkshake · 18/07/2007 14:36

Thanks for your words of support and encouragement. I am the worlds biggest worrier and just keep thinking 'what if'

Will buckle down to it next week when I am on annual leave and can spend my nights padding in and out of his room checking on him.

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