My one year old used to be a wonderful sleeper. It has all gone so far downhill and we don't know how to fix it. He gets up, has about 4 hours awake time and then about 2hrs nap. Then another 5 hrs awake time and then bed. He is refusing a 2nd nap, he is so tired by the end of the day that he can't be kept awake any longer. He used to do 3hrs awake, an hour nap, 3hrs awake, an hour nap, 3hrs awake and then bed and generally sleep all night with one wake up for a settle and his dummy. He has changed his routine himself, it's definitely not pushed by me! He now goes to sleep around 7:30/8. We tidy up and do the cleaning, settle down to relax for the evening and he wakes up. He is impossible to settle again. We have been trying for an hour and a half so far tonight. I would bring him down and let him play personally just so that me and dp can sit together for a little while, take him back up to bed when he's tired. But dp has decided we need to stop doing that, so we have taken it in turns tonight to try to get him back to sleep in his room. He also wakes up at least once in the night and tends to stay awake for around an hour. I'm pregnant with baby 2 (planned and conceived when he slept better!) and exhausted from looking after him and struggling with morning sickness. I don't know how to fix this. I can't imagine doing this when we have a newborn too! Someone send help!