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Sleeping in the same room with a toddler

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prettymum2 · 19/09/2018 09:04

Hello
I would like to know your opinion about my situation.
Me and my husband lives in a 1bed house with our 2 years old
Since she turned 18 months,Insaid to hubby no sex in the same room with our L.O even if she's sleeping.
I proposed we can have sex in our living room,kitchen,bathroom everywhere but not in the room.
He seems not to understand and think I'm avoiding sex.
He suggests that we have to give up our living room and turn this to our bed room and live the actually bedroom to our L.O
But I feel like living with no living room space with lead me to depression.
I can imagine passing all my days in a bedroom even if we have a garden but why can we just have sex in the living room and go to sleep in the same room as our LO till we get the 2bed.
I feel like he's lazy for wanting sex in the bed everytime.
It's doesn't excite me anymore cause it's like a routine.
I love different locations and it's excit me but He seems not to understand

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beccii161016 · 20/09/2018 20:29

Honestly it's disgusting that he would ever want to entertain the idea of having sex with a toddler in the room! That sort of thing can have a genuinely damaging effect on a child's mental state. She is a child and she should not be exposed to sex in any way for many years yet!

Personally if he doesn't want sex anywhere else I'd just refuse him until he accepts that it is not going to happen in the bedroom. I seriously think you need to make him understand how deeply wrong it is to have sex in the same room as a toddler though I can't understand why a fully grown man would need to have that explained to him.

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