My baby is 14 weeks old on Monday and I think we've hit the 4 month sleep regression or something. He was previously a brilliant sleeper, slept for 3-5 hour stretches over night or would mostly only wake once for a feed. Happy days. Of course it doesn't last as they change and develop so quickly but having had about 2/3 weeks now of severely interrupted sleep (he's waking up every 1-2 hours) I'm running on empty and I'm getting to the end of my tether. My other half doesn't 'help' because he works nights/afters Monday to Friday but to be honest I've never really been bothered about him not doing the night shift because I'm breastfeeding sooo. I know I can express but that's a whole other issue. I struggle to get enough for a full feed for him plus I honestly feel like I just don't get chance. Me and my boobs would just like some peace and quiet so when little one is finally asleep the last thing I wanna do is even think about expressing, I just wanna sleep. End of. But I'm thinking of asking him to get up with him at night on the weekends and either reluctantly try and express or just give him formula just so I can get some actual decent rest. But I digress. So basically in the day my little one has always struggled with nap times. He only naps for a decent amount of time if he's been held. If he's in his cot he'll nap no longer than 30 minutes and that's a fluke more often than not. He struggles to go down. He hates dummies. Has done from day one. He has tongue tie issues which are now sorted but even now he still won't take one. So I'm a human dummy. I breastfeed him to sleep for his naps or he simply won't.I breastfeed him to sleep at night. And as I was googling the 4 month sleep regression I basically now feel like I'm doing it all wrong by breastfeeding him to sleep. There's so much conflicting information. I don't do baby books for that reason. My whole parental philosophy is to just go with the flow and by that I mean essentially let me baby tell me what to do. Which has been working in the sense that I know my baby and what his cues and different cries mean.. so I know that when he wakes in the night he wants comfort feeding so I give him the boob until he falls back to sleep. But apparently, according to numerous sites, doing so is wrong and and I'm basically creating a rod for my own back and I've read nothing but horror stories like 15 month old still waking hourly for boob. And in my current deliriously tired state, I'm not gonna lie, it's scared me and I'm now full of self doubt. Anyone dealt with anything similar?