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15 month old started being a monkey at bedtime!

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Newmum26 · 21/07/2018 19:57

My little boy is 15 months and has always been a good sleeper.
As a newborn and upto the point he could stand up in his cot we used to put him down awake and he would just go off to sleep himself.
Then when he started standing up and walking (early walker) it got harder to do that as when we walked away he would just stand up in his cot and when he saw us walking away he would cry. We've tried leaving him but he gets more upset then it's a vicious circle as you've got an upset worked up baby.
So for the last few months what's worked for us is we put him down and pat his bum until he is asleep so he doesn't just stand up.
But the last week a few nights he's been put down to bed and just keeps getting up and up and every time you lay him back down he gets up again! Leave the room, he cries.
My question is is it ok to just do what works for this moment? So tonight and last night I've cuddled him in and rocked him a little until he realises he's actually sleepy and relaxed and then I put him in his cot still semi awake just more chilled and he goes to sleep.
I've always been so worried about bad habits and don't want to start any now but at the same time I need to find a way of getting him to seep.
Is it another phase? He doesn't play up every night just if he's hyper and full of beans.
Any advice? X

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Her0utdoors · 21/07/2018 20:28

Go with the flow. My first almost always took an hour or two to get to sleep, now she's 4 and takes about 5 mins, I've always fed/ cuddled her to sleep, no bad habits formed. Her brother was pretty much down instantly, until about 15months and now oh my frigging word, he take at least an hour- he's currently trying to throw his doll out the window and I'm here trying not to loose my shit, but I will keep up the cuddles and eventually this will all be a fond(ish) memory....

CloudCaptain · 21/07/2018 20:31

Yep. It happens about that age. Don't worry they grow out of it. I quite miss patting my 4yo to sleep. But I get to wrestle 2yo into bed now. Grin

Newmum26 · 21/07/2018 21:00

Ah thank you both for replying it's refreshing to hear what normal real life bedtime routines are like!
It's nice to know that if you do what works for now it doesn't always mean that it ruins things in the long run.
I think there's so much 'you shouldn't create a sleep association' crap that it makes you so paranoid you daren't cuddle or rock your baby to sleep!
Hope your little one goes a off soon ☺️

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