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Advice on getting 13 month old to sleep independently

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Smurfy23 · 19/07/2018 22:29

Dd has always been terrible to get to sleep. She will fight and fight and fight it and has done ever since she was tiny. Her day time naps can be great and go on for ages or she might last for 12 hours on 35 mins like she did today. But its night time that worried me.

We have to get her to go to sleep in our arms. If we put her down in the cot in any other state she pings herself awake and stands up, cries, doesnt want to be in the bed. If I put her down asleep she will sleep through. It's fine and it works for now. But I'm conscious that I can't do this forever- shes getting bigger and harder to hold like that (like a babe in arms- shes really tall so there are limbs everywhere). I haven't got it in me to do controlled crying or anything like that...so my question is: if you had a baby like that, how did you get them to learn how to sleep by themselves?? I imagine waiting a bit til shes older and I can talk her through whats happening but I just wanted your experiences really....

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Newmum26 · 29/07/2018 11:12

Hi we have a similar experience, we have to put little one down in his cot awake but sit next to him and pat his bum until he's asleep enough to leave the room, we've tried putting him in and leaving him and he just cries and gets upset when he sees you leave the room 🤷🏻‍♀️ Also keen to hear any advice ☺️

burnttoastandmarmalade · 29/07/2018 11:16

Same as that. I have to either nurse him or rock him to sleep. He still wakes 3/4 times per night too. Exhausting business.

Newmum26 · 29/07/2018 11:29

We've tried leaving him and saying night night, but as soon as you walk out of the door he cries and gets himself upset, I did leave him for a few minutes and kept going back in and laying him back down and repeating but we just kept going and going and he was writing more upset. I don't like the thought of him sobbing himself to sleep which is how it ended up when I went back in and patted his bum, so like you I am with the mindset that it works for now so I would rather get him to sleep like that than have him upset

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