I'm new to to the site and have just read the section on daytime sleep but doesn't seem to help our situation.
My daughter has always been a catnapper. Her 'routine' (it's always changing! Can't seem to force one on her!) at the moment is:
5-6:30am wake
8ish (after nearly 2 hours awake) nap for 30 minutes
10ish (after 2 hours awake or less) nap for 30 minutes
12:30/1 nap for 30 mins (after nearly 2 hours awake)
3/4/4:30 nap for 30 minutes when she looks tired (worst nap of the day, usually she cries loads)
6:30/7pm bedtime after a strict bath/song/ feed routine
2/3am nightfeed up until a couple of days ago.
Occasionally she will have a longer nap, two weeks ago, she slept for an hour and 20 minutes in the cot. Last week she had two 40 min naps in the cot so only had 3 naps. I would love to get her to have 3 longer naps and feel this is more age appropriate. I do rock her to sleep on my chest for naps which I know is very naughty so wonder if she can't settle herself back to sleep after 30 mins but then she has had longer naps sometimes? Do I need to extend her waketimes? Should I not worry as she is just about sleeping through for 11 hours and settling herself back to sleep at night?
It is just hard to arrange our days around 4 naps and when we are out she usually ends up being an overtired mess if I cant go for a walk and get her to nap eg baby groups, swimming etc. Sorry for the wall of text, hope someone can help!