Hi I would like a bit of advice
My 10 year old boy has autism and is slightly immature to your average 10 year old.
I had an argument with my partner who doesn't live with us but stays occasionally.
My son every so often sleeps in my bed with me maybe once a month. My son last night said to my partner "I sleep with my mum at weekends"
My partner has reacted to that and one minute said he shouldn't be saying that as people will get the wrong idea and then changed it to sleeping in my bed at his age is wrong and not helping him with his insecurities. Then he said my son was purposely trying to annoy him. My response to this is , so what if he did he's a ten year old boy and he's a grown man why is he reacting, if he felt a way about him sleeping in my bed he should of come to me and asked me instead of saying to him you shouldn't be saying that and laughing at him because he slightly over exaggerated by saying I sleep with my mum at weekends
Autsitic children are very literal so him sleeping in my bed of a weekend every once in a while to him is sleeping with me at weekends.
My partner thinks he done it to wind him up where as I think he was probably a little bit jealous which I think for a child that is used to it just being us 2 alot of the time is probably normal and something he will grow out of.
My partner is now saying I'm making him out to be the bad person because I don't agree with what he's saying and I think he's allowed a 10 year old to annoy him when really he should of just asked and not let something so small get to him.
Am I in the wrong here please someone give me a bit of advice