just this evening my DH and I decided to give CC a chance, although I was totally against leaving my DD to cry for any length of time at all, but after 1 month of averaging 3 hours of broken sleep a night, having a constant cold, cold sores and mouth ulcers due to being run down by lack of sleep we decided to bite the bullet, we went to 11 minutes and she is still sound asleep, fingers crossed it continues throughout the night. Okay now that I have explained myself which I probably felt the need to do because of the guilt I'm feeling right now . I need some advise, during my DD's afternoon nap I normally take her to my bed and BF her to sleep, which I absolutely love doing, I love the closeness and know that I won't have this time with her for very long as she is growing up so quickly, but I wonder if I need to give this up now or am I sending her mixed messages if I continue, i.e it is ok to sleep on mommy's breast during the day nap, when it suits her but not at night when you want to most????