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Is this self-settling ok?

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INeedNewShoes · 25/09/2017 22:25

My baby is 4.5 months old and I have a question about the way she goes to sleep. To give a bit of background, she has slept well at night since birth, obviously waking up a lot in the early weeks for feeding but now will happily sleep for 7 hours at a time. Sometimes she will wake up briefly in the night and settle herself back to sleep quite happily without making a noise at all.

I would like reassurance (I hope) that the way she is getting to sleep is ok.

At bedtime after bath etc. I feed her and then put her in her cot. 9 times out of 10 she will cry a little (whingey low-level crying rather than distressed crying) for anywhere between 30 seconds and 5 minutes before sucking her thumb and falling asleep.

Is this ok that she is crying a bit before going to sleep? Its not in the same vein as controlled crying is it?

If I stay with her she becomes more agitated. She actually seems to prefer to be left to her own devices to get to sleep.

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Lostmymarbles1985 · 25/09/2017 22:38

Sounds fine. My youngest is the same. It's great to know they are happy and confident enough to get themselves to sleep.

Yika · 25/09/2017 22:42

Totally fine! Great that she self-settles. Enjoy it.

DimpleDumpling · 25/09/2017 22:45

Totally fine! Mine is now 10 months and still has a little grumble than I've dared put her to bed, cries for a few minutes, then is conked out all night.

If it's a distressed cry then obviously go and calm baby, but otherwise it's seems normal

INeedNewShoes · 25/09/2017 23:18

Thanks for your replies. One less thing for me to mummy-guilt myself about!

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