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An Intolerably Cruel Trick

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TreadmillMom · 29/03/2007 10:22

DS2 18 months has played an intolerably cruel trick on me.
Tuesday night he went to bed at 8pm and woke at 7:10am, a first, ever in his little life. Not a sound, not a peep, not a request for a drink or nappy change. Nothing!
Oh joy of joy, after 8 hours of sleep I felt like a new woman, I was invincible, I could concentrate, I felt positive and started to dream of making plans with my new found energy.
Last night (Wednesday) he went to bed at 8 as usual DH went out and I enjoyed an evening of not nodding off in front of the box.
Went to bed at 10pm. DS2 woke at approx 2:30am had water, had nappy change, stood up asking for a cuddle about 2,000,000 times, I lay him back down every time with the verbal instruction of go to sleep. He kept checking to see if I was still there, I dragged the duvet and pillows onto the floor, knew I was in for the long haul, he finally fell asleep at 3:50am!
I decided there was no point climbing back into bed so stayed on the floor.
Alarm went off at 6am, time for work.
He woke up with eye bags Louis Vutton would envy.
I am now sitting at my desk not knowing how I am physically going to make it through the day. I am tired, my neck and shoulders are killing me, I have no energy and my spark has just gone out.
What an evil trick to play on mommy.
He showed me the way life could be again then snatched it away in an instant.

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Cloudhopper · 29/03/2007 10:25

I know just what you mean. Our 12mo did actually sleep through with only stirring in the middle of the night rather than full blown histrionics.

It was wonderful. Then the very next night she woke up at 1.30am and didn't get off to sleep till 4.45am.

Poor you - I really sympathise. I found it helped to keep getting up and wandering round the office, making coffee etc. rather than sitting there dropping off to sleep.

Maybe even go for 5 minutes fresh air outside?

amiandlils · 29/03/2007 20:57

Oh TreadmillMom I share your angst! My beautiful dd has slept through only about 5 random nights in her 7 months of life.

Each time she does I think hooray, we've turned the corner, she can do it! But no - its always a blip.

Even though you accept the broken nights followed by a day at work, its actually worse when they have slept through as you realise what you're missing.

Its funny how I convince myself that the bad nights are always a 'phase', yet good ones mean she's going to do it for good. How deluded I am!

Never mind - love the little thing to pieces and always feel awful when I have been stressed out with her from lack of sleep.

I guess she'll do it in her own sweet time...

DontlookatmeImshy · 29/03/2007 21:03

Oh ds did this to me too.At about 16 months he slept through 3 nights in a row. After the 3rd night I had just started to dare to hope we had finally cracked it................

........and then his molars started coming through. Never mind........maybe one day......

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