very strict CC i am afraid. her cot is right next to my bed so couldnt do the softly softly approach. the first night was awful. it seemed she was awake all night, screaming at me. each time would just pay her back down, say sleep now, and go back to my bed and try and ignore her and go back to sleep. then she would do it again, and soi would do it again. i just didntget her out of the cot at all.
2nd night, same again, just keep doing it.