Tbh I was rubbish last night, I'm just so tired and finding it really hard to function when she wakes up and drags me from my coma. I'd taken her 'morning' bottle to bed with me in the hope I'd get her through the night with pu/pd and be able to finally give it to her if she woke anytime after 6 and then doze again.
But last night she woke at 2 (what's all that about??!) and after a few goes at shush and pat and as I was considering a pick-up, I felt her tummy and it was rumbling away so she was obviously hungry and I thought that no amount of pu-pd would work if this was the case. I read a lot of the stuff on the link to the BW site posted below and it says if they are hungry you just have to feed them but then make sure their calorie intake is increased the next day. So I gave her the milk and then she work again at 4ish (habit this time I think) and she went off again after a bit of comfort BUT this included the remnants of her bottle (only a tiny bit) but it was using the bottle and teat as a prop which I know is a real no-no. I was just so knackered though - please don't shout at me!!
Anyway, she's had lots to eat today and I'm off to give her some cereal now if she'll have it and her night-time bottle, and we'll try again tonight Watch this space...
(On the other hand, dh and dd1 slept really well up in the attic room away from the crying - dd1 slept so well in fact that she wet the bed!!!! Dh NOT happy this morning! Oh well!)