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TreadmillMom · 27/12/2006 23:57

Hi, your opinion please. My DS2 is now 14 months and was successfully sleep trained using the Controlled Crying method just over a month ago. After 7 bliss filled nights of having him sleep through consistently for the first time in his life he developed an ear infection and surprise, surprise his good sleep pattern was back out of the window. Since then he has vehemently fought against putting himself back to sleep and is back to shouting for us from his cot 2 to 3 times a night. He has always been an affectionate child and has learnt the word ?cuddle?, he demands a ?cuddle? however about 100 times a day and every time he wakes in the night. It?s so difficult, in the middle of cooking, responding to DS1?s needs, going for a wee all accompanied by ?cuddle? with little arms outstretched and if you do not respond straight away and I mean literally a tantrum swiftly follows. He will and does cuddle every Tom, Dick and Harry, patients in the doctors waiting room, other mothers at toddler groups, the post man if I?d let him. My husband says he heard that a child who consistently asks for cuddles from anyone and everyone is a child starved of affection, it?s playing on my mind, what do you think? Any similar experiences, does it go hand in hand with needing a sleep prop?

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 28/12/2006 00:07

DS does this. Its his way of asking to be picked up. This could be for a variety of reasons. Often it is for affection. Often it is to get him high enough to achieve whatever it is he is determined to achieve.

His vocabulary is much better now, so no need to say 'cuddle' now as he can say what he really wants.

Seems to me, he is trying to tell you something, and the only word/signal he can give you to get your attention is 'cuddle'.

I dont think ts because he is starved of affection as such. More that he is trying to communicate something to you.

brimfull · 28/12/2006 00:36

you've got a bright wee boy who knows how to get his own way,not emotionally starved at all.

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