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Like sleeping in an effing farmyard...

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Packergator · 07/10/2015 06:32

My son is 6 weeks old. From around 3 weeks he has been a far from restful sleeper. Oh, we're very lucky, because he DOES sleep; usually a big chunk from 8.30/9 until 2.30, then 3 until 6-6.30...but to call that sleep fitful would be an underryste

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Packergator · 07/10/2015 06:46

Crap...stupid phone!

As I was saying, fitful is an understatement.

He thrashes, groans, squeaks, strains, barks, makes weird goaty bleating sounds...lifts his legs and thumps them down again. We have a snuzpod attached to our bed and he's so strong for a small baby that the crib bangs loudly against our bed! He appears to be asleep (or at least has his eyes closed) throughout this and it tends to come in waves. The deeper asleep he is, the more rested, but he seems to really struggle to settle into deep sleep.

We've tried; raising the head of the crib, raising his legs with a towel, a crib wedge, white noise, Comfort formula, swaddling, grobags, infacol, dentinox, gripe water...we think it may be wind (he is excessively farty Blush) but he always brings up wind well and has no problems feeding/pooing.

He is a joy during the day, on the whole a happy, smiley baby. He doesn't sleep much in the day (maybe 4-5 hours) but when he does it's either in his car seat/pram when we're out and about, or flat on his back on the sofa- no grunting/groaning/thrashing then which has made me discount things like reflux because surely that'd cause discomfort any time? He's currently dozing flat on his back on our bed (fished him out of the Snuzpod) as tranquil as anything.

I suppose I really want to know if this noisy sleeping is a phase. Will he grow out of it, or am I going to have to consider moving him to his own room before we'd planned, just so I can get some kip? I've tried earplugs, he's that loud I can still hear him! It's frustrating as I'm often sandwiched betwixt thrashing, grunty baby and snoring husband, and it feels like every other bastard is getting a bit of shut-eye apart from me!

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ditzzy · 07/10/2015 06:57

Snap! DD is now 7 weeks old and makes the full range of squeaks, squarks, and sniggers all night - although she always has done and does during daytime snoozes too. Oddly enough during the day it just sounds cute, it's only annoying at night Grin

I'd never thought about trying anything to stop it though (other than threatening to put her in her own room) both myself and DP have a history of sleep talking/walking so I assumed she was just getting in on the act early.

DD seems to find DPs snoring helps her sleep... At the beginning I seemed to be trapped between a rock and a hard place, if I stopped him snoring she'd be screaming, so the farmyard noises at least reassure me she's asleep!

Packergator · 07/10/2015 07:05

Thanks, I suppose if nothing else that's reassuring that it's normal! Smile

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Nyancat · 07/10/2015 07:09

Ds did that, only at night time though and generally was worse towards morning, would do a good long stretch at the start of the night then get noisier as the night went on. He's 9 months now and doesn't do it anymore, I'm struggling to remember when he stopped, we went on holiday at 4 months and I'm almost certain he didn't do it by then, maybe around 12 weeks.

Packergator · 07/10/2015 07:10

I am praying that it's 12 weeks; I have been promised many miraculous things happening at the 12 week point! Grin

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winchester1 · 07/10/2015 08:39

We play white noise to drown out the noise from the babies although the oldest is two and snores properly now. The noise never stopped but we are more use to it.

Gingernut81 · 07/10/2015 08:53

DD does that too, no idea why though & as pp has said it gets worse towards the end of the night. In fact I've just woken her up thinking that she was ready for a feed but it's apparent I could just have left her as I'm currently trying to feed a semi-conscious baby Grin

Packergator · 07/10/2015 11:18

That exact thing happened this morning! I went downstairs to make him up a bottle...by the time I came back upstairs he'd drifted off to proper sleep again! Gah.

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HoweyWoloWizard · 08/10/2015 08:26

My little one did this!! He's 19 weeks now and about 12 weeks it settled into a not so gentle snore! And no more wriggling. Hang in there

Kaz4755 · 08/10/2015 08:34

Hello! My daughter,is 13 weeks and has just stopped thrashing around quite so much! She still has her moments but touch wood it isn't as bad! Probably just tempted fate! I don't understand the phrase 'sleeps like a baby'....pffft! I did read that the thrashing is them processing information of everything they have encountered but who knows! Typically she is now having a snooze on me in bed and has been snoring her conkers off for the past hour lying as still as a statue!

BumWad · 09/10/2015 02:31

Haha your post has made me laugh.

When we first brought DS home we were like WTF. Couldn't believe the noises a little teeny tiny baby could make! However I promise you it does get better. He is currently 19 weeks and sleeping in his Snuzpod and I can not hear a peep. I can't tell you exactly when he quietened down but you haven't got long to go!

TillITookAnArrowToTheKnee · 09/10/2015 02:35

Youngest DD was like that, proper leg smasher as ExDP called her! I have no idea how it didn't really hurt her to do it so hard.

Underbeneathsies · 09/10/2015 02:49

Oh yes, they really don't "sleep like babies" at all.
We had to put ours into their own room in order to sleep ourselves.

I woke at every little noise. DH followed them to the spare room, as his snoring was waking me then. I was prinmed to wake at any noise.

I retrained myself by letting DH do night feeds and getting a white noise machine so every little noise wouldn't wake me.

Watch out for the night terrors- blood curdling howls, my god I nearly died when they started that racket at 3/ 4 months- you really think they're being murdered.

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GameOfGroans · 09/10/2015 02:50

OP I could have written your post! Substitute 6 weeks for 8 and snuzpod for next-to-me and your life could be mine. Currently I am sitting up in bed and can hear grunt... thump... snort... snore... squeak... grunt... thump... snort... snore... squeak... on bloody surround sound!

SushiAndTheBanshees · 09/10/2015 02:53

We eventually moved DD out of or room because she was just too ruddy noisy. Especially her farts. Hate to break it to you but this was at 6mo.

And yes, the night terrors. Unforgettable (for us, they haven't the first clue!).

blibblobblub · 09/10/2015 04:14

DD did it and, thinking about it, I'm not sure when she stopped (she's 19wks now), but she doesn't do it anymore. She was never as noisy as you describe but she did grunt a lot! Little piglet Grin

Kaz4755 · 09/10/2015 06:20

Sods law! After writing that my DD has stopped thrashing quite so much we have had a night of non stop thrashing! Mind you she only woke twice for feeding so at least that is something, that NEVER happens!

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