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Just let me leave the sodding bedroom

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Allyouneedispug · 23/04/2015 12:37

DS (I use the "d" loosely today!) 15mo has started freaking out the moment I leave his eyeline. He was/is notoriously independent so it's a bit of a shock.

Sleeping is the main issue. He's never managed a full nights sleep without at least one dummy run, but I'm usually in and out of his room in 2 minutes. He'd quite happily self-settle to sleep at bedtime and would put himself back to sleep once dummy had been shoved in his waiting mouth. Dropped from 2-1 naps at 13mo and this is usually between 1-2h late morning.

In the last week he has done a complete 360. He won't self settle to sleep and, despite being exhausted, starts screaming and sobbing the moment i leave his bedroom. I'm doing CC as softly softly doesn't work for him (sleep trained at 8mo)

I could cope with this IF he wasn't waking up in the night howling, screaming and sobbing. At first, I thought it was teething but he's in no obvious pain (and I gave calpol just in case). He was up 12-230am on Tuesday before finally sobbing himself to sleep and waking sobbing at 7am.
Last night the sobbing was from 3-4 and he woke up in tears screaming.
Nap today-went down with a bit of a fight and woke up within 20m sobbing (he'd eaten and had calpol).

Any ideas? Is it just separation anxiety or is it possible he's got a new fear of the dark? Please tell me it's a short phase- I'm a zombie at work!

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KahloSherman · 23/04/2015 14:46

Have you ever looked at the Wonder Weeks book/app/website? There is what they call a developmental leap around this age - we are just coming up on the week 64 one, around 15 months. Basically, every so often a baby's brain kind of re-wires itself as they develop new skills and they go through a really cranky phase while it happens, being clingy, crying more, tantrums, not sleeping or eating that well etc. If this sounds familiar, it's just a phase and your LO will need extra reassurance. We sporadically co-sleep to get through these times, but I know it's not for everyone. It will pass!

starfish12 · 23/04/2015 17:38

Agree with Khalo. My DS is 18 months and we definitely had 2 rocky sleep patches - one around 15/16 months then again at 17/18 months due to wonder week and 18 month sleep regression (sorry something else to look forward to !).
He would wake every hr wanting cuddles which was friggin annoying to say the least. Then just as suddenly as it started it stopped...!
Good luck... x

roofio87 · 27/04/2015 08:10

I'll second the other ladies. It's not easy when you want a fix, but I would say just wait it out. we had very similar here and then it just stopped, I popped him in his cot one night,left and he didn't make a peep. this was after weeks of sitting with him and more night wakings than I could count! hopefully it's just a phase and will pass soon.

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