So, on a good night my ds wakes 4 times, on a bad night it can be up to 8 times. He has 8 teeth, had them by 8 months so could be teething molars. He self settles at bed time with me sitting next to him. When he wakes sometimes I just have to tuck him in and he goes back to sleep, other times we need to pat his bum to get him to drop off again. As sometimes he is sitting up, sometimes standing but crying every time. He is in a cot in his own room and has been since 6 months old. He has two naps during day, one about 45 mins and the other about 1.5 hours. Always awake by 3pm for school run and in bed asleep between 7 - 7.20pm. After that will sometimes do 3hr stretch but most often wakes every 1.5 - 2 hours until getting up at 6.40am. Breastfed but doesn't get a feed in the night. All naps in cot and never sleeps in our bed. What are we doing wrong??