Really need my lovely twins to learn to self soothe as I have two older ones as well. They both fall asleep easily in arms or feeding or in sling. One will fall asleep in bouncy seat without too much trouble. Neither will fall asleep in cot in day. Unable to transfer them once asleep as they just wake up within a few minutes. Have tried leaving to cry for increasing periods which has had good results at bedtime but rarely works in the day and is just too upsetting . would love to sit and hold them all day but simply can't with older two. Getting to end of tether listening to crying.
Any advice gratefully received.
Not posting this in multiple births as not enough traffic there!!